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You’re not “too much.” You’re finally seen.

This is a space for women who grew up thinking they were lazy, messy, or “overly emotional” only to learn it was ADHD all along—told with honesty, dark humor, and a lot of heart so you feel less alone and more understood.

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I write about the messy, luminous, and often humorous moments of adult ADHD in women—the masking, the meltdowns, the small wins that keep us going. I’m here to offer reflection, science, and camaraderie, so you don’t have to face it alone.

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From diagnosis to daily life, this space covers work, relationships, and the art of masking—with honesty and a sense of levity.

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